Let's Talk About Training To Failure

I wanted to share something important that comes up a lot in our WWLW Facebook Group: training to failure.

Many women think a “good workout” means pushing until you can’t do another rep, can’t lift your arms, or can’t walk down the stairs.

But here’s the truth…

You shouldn’t train to failure often — and in most cases, you shouldn’t train to failure at all.

Let me explain why.

Two Main Categories of Training: MOVEMENTS & MUSCLES

To keep this simple, think of your training in two buckets:

1️⃣ Movements (The Big Lifts)

These are your compound, multi-joint strength builders:

  • Squats

  • Deadlifts

  • Push presses

  • Rows

  • Anything heavy and technical

With these, the goal is skill, strength, and solid techniquenot fatigue.

2️⃣ Muscles (Targeted Work)

These are lighter, safer, muscle-focused lifts:

  • Bicep curls

  • Tricep extensions

  • Lateral raises

  • Lat pulldowns

  • Leg curls, extensions, etc.

These are safer to push closer to failure because the load is lighter and the movement is simpler.

Here’s the Deal

🔥 Movements should RARELY — if ever — be taken to failure.

Why? Because failure on a big lift usually means:

  • Your form breaks down

  • Injury risk skyrockets

  • You reinforce poor movement patterns

  • Recovery becomes harder

  • Long-term progress slows

Even high-level powerlifters don’t take their main lifts to failure.

If they avoid it… you definitely don’t need to.

🔥 Muscle-focused exercises can be taken close to failure — but only when:

  • Your form stays tight

  • You control every rep

  • You understand the goal (build muscle, not test yourself)

The Bigger Point: Failure Should NOT Be the Goal

Your real goals in the gym should be:

  • Getting stronger

  • Improving technique

  • Building muscle

  • Progressing over time

Training to failure doesn’t help with any of that — in fact, it usually slows your progress.

A simple rule of thumb?

Always leave a little in the tank — especially on the big lifts.

That’s how the smartest lifters in the world train.
That’s how you stay healthy.
And that’s how you make long-term progress.


Coach Rob
Women Who Lift Weights

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